Your first spa salon visit: what to expect

First-Time Waxing: Your Guide to a Smooth Start

If you’re considering swapping the razor for a wax, you’re not alone! Waxing is a popular hair removal method that provides smoother results for weeks. While it’s normal to feel a little nervous before your first appointment, knowing what to expect can make the experience much more comfortable.

Here is a guide on how to prepare and what to anticipate during your first professional waxing session.


📅 Before Your Appointment: Preparation is Key

A little preparation goes a long way toward ensuring a successful first wax.

  • Grow It Out: Your hair needs to be long enough for the wax to grab onto. Most professionals recommend at least 1/4″ long—about the size of a grain of rice. This usually means avoiding shaving for about 2-4 weeks before your appointment.
  • Gently Exfoliate: The day before your appointment, gently exfoliate the area to remove dead skin cells. This helps prevent ingrown hairs and allows for a cleaner wax.
  • Keep Skin Clean and Dry: On the day of your wax, shower and cleanse the area. Avoid applying heavy lotions, oils, or moisturizers to the area being waxed, as this can prevent the wax from adhering properly.
  • Manage Discomfort (Optional): If you are concerned about pain, consider taking an over-the-counter pain reliever (like ibuprofen) about 30 minutes before your appointment. Avoid caffeine, as it can sometimes increase skin sensitivity.
  • Wear Loose Clothing: Choose loose-fitting, comfortable clothing for your appointment. After the wax, your skin may be a little sensitive, and tight clothes can cause friction and irritation.
  • Timing: For intimate waxing services like a Brazilian or bikini wax, some people find they are more sensitive to pain during their menstrual cycle. Consider booking your appointment in between cycles.

👣 During the Visit: The Process

Your experience will vary slightly depending on the salon, but the core steps remain consistent.

1. Check-In and Consultation

  • You’ll check in and may fill out a brief form, especially if it’s your first time.
  • Your licensed wax specialist or esthetician will lead you to a private, sanitized treatment room.
  • They will confirm the service you are receiving and may ask about any medications you are taking (especially retinoids or skin-thinning products) or skin sensitivities. This is a great time to ask any questions you have.

2. Preparation

  • Depending on the service, your specialist will instruct you on how to prepare (e.g., partially disrobe). Your privacy and comfort are a priority.
  • The specialist will then cleanse the area to remove any lingering oils or dirt. They may apply a pre-wax oil or powder to protect the skin.

3. The Wax Application

  • Your specialist will apply warm wax to a small section of your hair in the direction of hair growth. They will hold the skin taut.
  • The wax is then quickly removed (either with a cloth strip or by the wax itself, depending on whether they use soft or hard wax) in the opposite direction of hair growth. This is the moment where you feel the sensation!
  • Your specialist is highly experienced and will work efficiently, typically chatting with you to help distract you. While you may feel a quick, sharp sting, the sensation subsides almost immediately. The first wax is often the most uncomfortable, as your hair is thickest and your nerves are on edge. It gets easier with every subsequent visit.
  • After the main waxing, the specialist may use tweezers to remove any stray or stubborn hairs.

4. Post-Wax Soothing

  • The esthetician will apply a soothing post-wax product (like a calming oil or lotion) to help reduce redness and calm the skin.
  • They will review post-care instructions and recommend products to maintain your smooth skin and prevent ingrown hairs.